do u have a fren like this?

do u have a fren like this?

u were best frens for a period of time
someone whom u share ur darkest secrets with
those stuff which u have shared with noone else
been thru the rough path together
chat everyday.....

and then when the dark period is over
u realized u dun have many common frens
dun do much things together
it sometimes feels awkward with each other but u still pretend to be comfortable
because u were supposed to be good frens..
u try to keep in touch because u would nv wanna lose this fren..

this friend is special and always has a place in ur heart..
u do not contact each other as often now
do not chat as often
but this fren is always more than a normal fren/colleague/school mate whom you see/chat more often
even if u dun see each other for years..

who says its always 有福同享,有难同当 for good friends?
some friends can only 有难同当
some friends can only 有福同享
but when u shared the sorrows together
the friendship is even more lasting, much more, than ppl who can only 有福同享 =)
more memorable too..

i dunno whats the point of this post
but, i have a fren like this =)
and i miss this fren hehe
although we are not as close now
i am happy for the many memories we shared
and i am sure if another dark period hit
we would still be as close!
i wish we could be close again but i dun wish for another dark period for myself/the friend!
so let things be the way it is now
and i continue to be happiness-overdose =)

hohoho such a boliao post
but i am very free now because school has not started
means work has not started for me!
(actually have few outstanding reviews argh!! shall do it tonight~)
one last week of unemployment
looking forward to my new life!
wich me luck alright? hehe

reunion dinner~

cny is coming~
being overseas alone
i most look forward to the reunion dinner every year
which means family gathering
which means lovely home-cooked good food =)

however i read from here recently
that many ppl no longer have their reunion dinner at home
even more ridiculous to me
(maybe i am 'swagu')
some ppl are willing to spend almost S$7k for eating out
S$7k for a table of 10
the figure shocked me
it seems like the economic downturn doesnt affect the businesses of these restaurants
to accommodate the high demand
many restaurants have to divide their dining session into 2 on the eve of cny
some restaurants were already being fully booked at as early as october last year

this year, my dad suggested eating out as well
which i strongly against it
to me, reunion dinner must be held at home
it doesnt matter not to have abalone or sharks' fin
it matters to me that the family is reunited at home
to enjoy the homely feeling together ^_^

these were what i had for my reunion dinner last yeara good spread of simple home-cooked dishes
chit-chats and jokes over the dining table
a warm feeling to welcome a new year

i look forward to my reunion dinner this year =)
i hope you too~

reunion dinner~

cny is coming~
being overseas alone
i most look forward to the reunion dinner every year
which means family gathering
which means lovely home-cooked good food =)

however i read from here recently
that many ppl no longer have their reunion dinner at home
even more ridiculous to me
(maybe i am 'swagu')
some ppl are willing to spend almost S$7k for eating out
S$7k for a table of 10
the figure shocked me
it seems like the economic downturn doesnt affect the businesses of these restaurants
to accommodate the high demand
many restaurants have to divide their dining session into 2 on the eve of cny
some restaurants were already being fully booked at as early as october last year

this year, my dad suggested eating out as well
which i strongly against it
to me, reunion dinner must be held at home
it doesnt matter not to have abalone or sharks' fin
it matters to me that the family is reunited at home
to enjoy the homely feeling together ^_^

these were what i had for my reunion dinner last yeara good spread of simple home-cooked dishes
chit-chats and jokes over the dining table
a warm feeling to welcome a new year

i look forward to my reunion dinner this year =)
i hope you too~